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"Tidak salah saling mengenali yang salah saling mencintai, tidak salah saling berhubungan yang salah ada perhubungan, tidak salah jatuh cinta yang salah bercinta, kerana itu lafazkanlah kata cinta selepas bernikah, kerana telah benar itulah milikmu. memilih yang halal akan dapat pahala mencari yang haram akan dapat dosa"
one night spent at q'nurul's house taught me a lot. About life, being a good nuslimah, being a good daughter and friend. How to be a better person, how to change our bad attitudes. 1st time i heard abut Jiddiyyah. yup, we have to jiddiyyah in everything we do. Jiddiyyah means bersungguh-sungguh.
The best thing is, q'nurul always advised us on becoming a good muslimah and at the same time, a good wife. As she is a second wife of a successful pilot and writer of religious books, lots of things that she said made us teruja. how can she become like that?? i want to have a soleh husband too.. i always dream that i want to meet my husband only after we are married, not like a couple before marriage like most couples nowadays. i know my dream is quite impossible in this modern world, love after marriage. and everyone will say i'm so 'dunnotheword' or poyo.... but, it's my dream, everyone has right to dream. because, as far as i know, 'couple in Islam is haram'..if there is anyone who don't agree with me, it's up to you...
"sesuatu yang membawa kepada sesuatu yang haram adalah haram juga.."
"jangan mendekati zina"
-semoga kita dikurniakan suami yang soleh yang boleh membimbing kita ke jalan yang diredhai Allah, n don't forget to pray for us to get a soleh husband one day-
dats all~
cintai seseorang kerana Allah, nescaya untuk sebarang musibah, kamu tidak akan menyesalinya dan x akan membencinya. Dan, janganlah kamu membenci cinta kerana itulah fitrah yang ada pada dirimu, ingin mencintai dan dicintai...Begitulah hakikat kejadian manusia yang Allah ciptakan sempurna bersama hati yang punya naluri dan perasaan.
cmne nk cinta krne Allah..klu couple skrg bole cye ke cinta krna Allah??
No its not impossible to have 'couple' only after we get married.. nmpaknya impian kita same azi =)..kak ain doakan azi dapat capai impian tu InsyaAllah
huhuhu..ade gak org yg sme..azi pon doakn k.ain dpt capai impian 2 n smga dpt suami yg dpt mmbmbing kte utk msuk syrga...aminn...
kte mmg x bole bnci cinta, sbb 2 mmg fitrah yg ade dlm mnusia..tp cinta 2 byk mksud, n byk tpt yg kte bole mrsekn cinta 2, x trbatas kpda cinta trhdap org yg opposite sex ngn kite je..n salahkh kite mmbnci cinta yg mmbawa dosa, kita kne benci dosa 2 klu kite x mmpu nk halang guna tangan atau lidah kn..so, salah x kalau ade prasaan benci lam hati kite kalau kte tgk couple zaman skrg yg da lbey dr org yg da kawen????
juz wondering...dunno what feeling should i have......
cyayouk2...
aminn.... ;)